The Early Inheritance Surge: Aussie Parents Gifting Millions to Kids, But At What Cost?
A significant and growing number of Australian parents are opting to provide their children with a financial leg-up, essentially gifting them an early inheritance. This trend is largely driven by a desire to help the younger generation navigate the increasingly challenging property market and secure their financial future sooner rather than later. However, financial experts are sounding a note of caution, urging parents to carefully consider the potential impact of their generosity on their own retirement security.
Traditionally, an inheritance was something passed down to loved ones after a person’s passing. Yet, senior financial adviser Elysse Lorenti from Perpetual Private has observed a marked acceleration in this trend, with parents proactively transferring wealth to their children during their lifetime.
“They can see that their children are struggling,” Lorenti explains. “They recognise that the current economic conditions are far more difficult than what they experienced at a similar age. If they have the financial capacity, they are more than happy to provide support.”
This proactive approach often involves substantial sums. Lorenti, based in Sydney, reports seeing parents gifting their children early inheritances ranging from approximately $250,000 to $300,000, primarily to assist with securing a home deposit. This generosity, however, exists in a fascinating dynamic with another emerging trend: the “Spending the Kids’ Inheritance” (SKI) phenomenon. As the name suggests, SKI represents a conscious decision by some Australians to prioritise their own enjoyment and well-being in retirement, opting to spend their accumulated savings on travel, hobbies, and a fulfilling lifestyle rather than setting it aside for their offspring.
“There are definitely a segment of people who think, ‘No, this is my money, this is my retirement, you’ll receive what I leave behind when I pass away’,” Lorenti notes, highlighting the contrasting perspectives on wealth distribution.
The Looming Wealth Transfer and Parental Support
The Australian financial landscape is on the cusp of a monumental wealth transfer. Over the next two decades, an estimated $5.4 trillion is projected to be passed down from Baby Boomers to younger generations, encompassing property, superannuation, and investments.
Research released in 2024 by Australian Seniors offers compelling insights into current parental behaviour. The study found that nearly a third of Australian parents aged over 50 have already provided financial assistance or an early inheritance to their children. This support has manifested in various forms, including contributions towards home deposits, assistance with rental bonds, or help with ongoing rent payments.
Balancing Generosity with Personal Security: A Crucial Consideration
While the paternal instinct to support children through difficult times, particularly in securing a home, is understandable, Lorenti stresses the importance of ensuring such assistance does not jeopardise the parents’ own financial well-being in retirement.
According to the latest budgets from the Association of Superannuation Funds of Australia (ASFA), homeowners aged 65 and over now require an annual income of $77,375 for a comfortable retirement as a couple, and $54,840 for a single individual.
“You don’t want to be sacrificing your own retirement,” Lorenti advises. “Especially if you’ve dedicated a lifetime to building up your wealth, intending to enjoy a secure and fulfilling retirement. You’ve already made significant sacrifices raising and educating your children, setting them up for their own lives.”

Lorenti has encountered situations where parents, driven by a desire to help, have gifted funds without fully considering the long-term repercussions. This can lead to them becoming financially overextended, experiencing difficulties later in life. Conversely, some parents may feel uncertain about their capacity to provide financial support and consequently delay or avoid the decision altogether.
Seeking Professional Guidance for Smart Gifting
This is precisely where seeking professional financial advice becomes invaluable. A financial adviser can help parents assess their current financial standing, project their future cash flow needs throughout retirement, and determine their capacity to gift money to their children, including the appropriate amount.
“It might be that you can afford to give to them, but perhaps not the sum you initially envisioned,” Lorenti suggests.
Even if a substantial lump sum gift isn’t feasible, there are alternative ways parents can assist their children financially:
- Loans: Parents can offer financial assistance in the form of a loan. This provides the child with needed funds while ensuring the parent retains an expectation of repayment, thus safeguarding their own assets.
- Guarantor: If outright financial gifts are not possible, parents can act as guarantors for their children’s home loans. However, it is crucial to be aware of the inherent risks involved. Seeking legal advice is highly recommended to fully understand these risks before committing.
Navigating the Age Pension Impact
For individuals receiving the Age Pension, it’s essential to understand how any early inheritance, whether received or gifted, could affect their pension payments. Centrelink rules can be complex, and it’s advisable to seek guidance to ensure compliance and avoid any unintended consequences.




